WE were blogging about each other, facing each other on one lonely Saturday, at Potong Pasir MacDonald’s. How strange it can be when a couple chose not to talk face to face but to type face to face instead. Not to worry, we are not facing some kind of relationship crisis. But we thought it would be nice to do so once in a while; to talk abit about her and defining our relationship.
Well, how should I describe our relationship, after passing our 7th month mark? Hmm ... it is cruising in a Millennium Falcon at a speed of light. We seem to know each other for years. In the space of 6 months, we had gone through all the ups and downs, sharing the troubles and the fortunes. They could possibly make up one novel!
Lynnie, has her adorable side. How could I not mention her clumsiness? The number of times she fall down or getting bruises may jolly earned her a Guinness World Record. She is the kind of person, who will put on her utmost effort in anything she do, be it work, relationship, friends or family. She would just bash and dash, (in hokkien we called “chiong”) ignoring all kinds of obstacles in front. And that explains sometimes why she ended like her real life - she fell and get hurt. She trusts people too easily and seldom put a guard against people around her.
For instances, in this relationship, I’m kind of passive most of the time. Therefore, in contrast, she had shown more eagerness in this relationship than the lazy me. While she is running and dashing, I’m like walking and pondering along the way. While she is an action movie character like Michelle Yeoh, I’m like Tom Hanks. And that makes her fuming mad at times. Actually, that doesn’t mean I love her less, but just that I didn’t do enough to show her that. The next instances may be more towards her relationship. She might be a 100% true friend, but they might not be 100% true to her. When that happens it is like knife stabbed into her heart. Result? Injured again... gosh.
I feel that Lynnie is a simple and straightforward person. She is not what she appears to be. She is just a woman who longed to have a place where she could call home and where she could rest her soul. Endless of mind games and back stabbing are not her cup of tea. If anyone who wish to play with her, I will take him/her on personally. If anyone would dare to lay a finger on her, I would make sure his/her ten fingers are fractured. Strategy and mind games, is my forte.
Another thing I like about her is that she loves kids. Her 3 nieces and nephews are her “Bao Bei”. I remember vividly, one day, while I was at her home. Her mum told her that Wewe (Her eldest nephew) asked his classmates to play with lighter in the school. She gave him a big thrashing and after which she cried secretly in the room. The reason for her tears is because she was afraid that “Wewe” might commit crimes when grown up. Her love for them and her family members are undyingly true.
Secretly, I have this in me. I love seeing her frustrated or angry. Ha! I don’t know what’s wrong with me. But it may be because seeing her angry, shows that I meant a lot to her. I hope she doesn’t get to see this post.
Okay, I should end this post here le. But if you think Incredible Lynnie can be described in just 7 paragraphs, then you are damned wrong. I going to use my lifetime to discover everything about Lynnie Tan. Till then, tata....